How does one dictate their own life? good question. They can't.
It seems as though life is all about how much you make, how big your house is, or what kind of car you drive. Some are happy about the lifestyle they have and some aren't at all and wish to have others lifestyles.
Over the past couple of years I've noticed that most people my age crave the lifestyle of the rich and famous and strive to have it one day. Let's face it, they won't. I'm not saying that they can't go for it, but its incredibly hard to achieve that said lifestyle unless you have a famous uncle or an abnormal talent. People don't want that minimum wage job or that loft apartment with barely anything in the fridge anymore. They want that corporate office job and that house with a 4 car garage.
It feels as though people stress out about getting that great job so they can make more than they need than just having life take its time. You can mess up a little bit. You can work at that grocery store for a couple months. You can rent that one bedroom apartment. You can buy cheap food. Its all a process about learning and living life.
In order for you to be happy you have to be happy that life is just taking its toll. You have to understand that its going to be okay and its just a learning process.
In the end it will be alright. just be happy and smile every single day because life is amazing.
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